This is a real life event that happened two years back. I still tremble remembering that day but it sure has taught me so many things that I couldn’t have learnt otherwise. This is my near to death experience; that clearly changed my way of living.
Back in 2018, when students of our college were in a week long tour to pokhara, ghandruk and many other places, we came across an accident that shook us from within.
Our college always conducted different tours for three different batches. We were on our 4th semester when this tour was being conducted. Everyone were so excited since this was our first outing from college itself. With very less expense we were about to enjoy a week long trip to major tourist places in our country. Everything was going according to plan and finally we were on the road.
Everything went okay, we enjoyed our trip, teachers were fun, friends and all others person in that tour were full of life and energy. I don’t remember a single moment when I felt bored or was sad about being in that tour. We actually didn’t realize how quickly seven days passed and we were already on our way back home.
Our last destination was siddha cave, near bandipur and we had a great time there. That cave was full of adventure and was one of the memorable moment of the entire tour. We had our lunch after that and we were on our way back home.
Being apart from family for seven long days was hard. We all missed our family so much that we were so excited to be home. Our college students were traveling in three different buses since there were nearly 90 students in the tour. Since we all were eager to get home soon our buses were speeding a little bit. We weren’t so conscious about the speed back then since all three buses were speeding in the same level and it didn’t feel wrong at all since we were going home after so long.
I was sharing my seat with my friend and was in a window seat because I always enjoyed watching scenarios while traveling. I don’t remember me falling asleep in bus during any kind of travelling. But, that day I don’t know how, maybe it was a long tiring week, I felt asleep along with the all the students in the bus. Later, We were stopped in a hotel where we all ate our snacks and again hopped on the bus to continue our journey.
We were probably a hour away from our home, so all of us were awake after the snack and were enjoying the scenarios. My friend had insisted that she would take the window seat and I without any second thought gave her that seat since there was no much time to reach home.
Our bus was speeding a little more than usual and then we started feeling something unusual in the driving pattern. The driver was taking the turns in so much speed that we all started getting scared of it . We were about to complain to the driver when we felt our bus tilting in the turn and sliding in the road. We were seated right behind the driver’s seat so we were clearly able to see the bus tilting and everything collapsing at once. I felt numb for a moment. I was carrying a cross bodied bag, which went all around my throat and strangled me and the helper of the bus was lying on top of me where I was not able to move either him or the bag from strangling me. It felt like I was dying right there, I started seeing everyone I loved in flashes, I thought I could never see them ever again in my entire life.
I still remember a loud thud and the slipping of bus in the road along with everyone shouting and crying, me asking that man to get off me, it was quite a scene there. Since the front window was completely shattered we were able to come out through it. I anyhow don’t remember me coming out of that bus. One of my friend was seriously injured since his hand was stuck under the bus, and some other friends broke their jaw, bones and many of us had scratches all over the body and faces too. Other two buses full of our friends came running to us and helped us get away from that place.
Some were applying antiseptics in the wounds of others and some were hugging and comforting the scared ones.
Ambulance was there within a short period of time so every students were taken to hospital and parents were informed about it. While we reached the hospital, it was full of parents and injured students. I still remember me crying hugging my father, and realizing what would’ve happened if bus had slide through the road and fell across the cliff. We later even heard that the driver was under the influence and that caused him to let go of the control of bus. Not so sure of that thing, but it might be the reason of that accident. That driver ran away right at the moment the bus fell, but the expenses were covered and everyone was fine later.
Now, after almost two years, even today when someone speeds their vehicle I start trembling, even my friends face the same problem.
Speeding was never right, Who knew, that speeding might have taken many lives that day. We were fortunate enough to live that day and meet our family once again.
That day after the accident, I realized something very big. We often tend to live our life under pressure, under the hefty workload, always forcing ourselves to be someone who we are not in real. We forget to live the life to the fullest. We don’t know what tomorrow holds, let alone tomorrow, we don’t know what the next second of your life holds for us. I realized that I was living a life where I was not doing the things I loved, I was not actually happy. Then that moment, I decided something and am currently implementing that in my life. From that day on, I have started to live my life to fullest, do what my heart wants me to do, love others, get away from negativity, discard those people who barely care for your presence or absense and many more because who knows when you will be no longer around to live all this again!
Sometimes a little near death experience helps us put things into perspective.
– Anne Shropshire
Thank you for your taking out your time to read my article. This means a lot. Follow @anjaliutters to motivate me more if you haven’t already!!
Thank god you all survived this…
And it’s true we often forget that the greatest thing that’s happening to us at the moment is life. We r still breathing and that’s a blessing. Rest are secondary. 🙂
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Yeah! That’s what we are missing in our life. We are so much busy doing other things that we often forget the simple thing that we are alive.
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I lost my friend some month back in an accident where his vehicle was way above the speed limit. I can understand the fear. I am glad no one was hurt in your accident. Nicely written. 👍
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I m sorry for your loss 🥺 Almost every other day people are losing life due to speeding and influence and it leaves a void in many peoples heart. Thankyou so much for supporting ❤️
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Don’t be sorry. And yes will always keep supporting. You have good content.
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Thankyou 🥺
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This is such an unfortunate event. Luckily you all are okay and that’s what matters the most. Keep sharing 😀
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Yeah! I am so glad that we actually survived it without any loss. Thank you so much for showering love in anjaliutters. It means a lot ❤️
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Aw. You’re welcome 😊
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Oh oh that is one tough experience. But there should have been teachers to take care – bus drivers tend to drink and drive rash. Thank God all ended well
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There were teachers too but unfortunately at that moment we were leaded by our seniors. Yeah, glad nothing went wrong! ❤️
Thankyou for stopping by sir! This means a lot ☺️
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My pleasure Anjali. Stay safe. Stay happy 😊
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You too sir ☺️
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Oh my god😱😱 thank God you all are safe !!!
That’s scary
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Yes, it was actually scary! Thank you for the concern 😊❤️ and thankyou for stopping by 😅
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WOW
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Wow- wow? Or Wooooow that’s scary- wow? 😀
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You were doing all you could to avoid meeting me, but look at you now 😀
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Okayy! Byeeee 🤣
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haha, not so fast, you still have a few more of my posts you haven’t liked 😉
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Done! 🥺
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Woah! Are your fingers okay?
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I think so!
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Aww 😄
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Gosh that was a very scary experience, and that does often makes us see life differently. So glad you survived it together with your fellow students. Thank you for visiting my blog and liking it too. I will explore your blog also. Interesting.
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Indeed it was a terrifying experience. Thank you so much ma’am! Do follow anjaliutters too! It would mean a lot ❤️
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A pleasure Anja.
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This must have been a scary experience! I am glad though what you learnt from this is the importance of living life to the fullest! I think that is what the pandemic has taught me, tomorrow isn’t guaranteed so live life to the fullest today!! Thanks for sharing, and I look forward to reading more blogs from you!
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Indeed it was the scariest, but glad we all were safe and sound. And I completely agree that this pandemic has also taught us the same, we often forget to live our life to the fullest! Maybe we all needed this wakeup call!
Amdt Thankyou so much for stopping by! It means a lot.
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Oh my god!! That must be really scary🥺🥺
Thank god, you all are okay😇🤗
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That was indeed very scary! I still tremble remembering it sometimes! Thankyou for stopping by and visiting my blog! It means a lot ❤️
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Oh God. What a harrowing experience. But thank god, you are fine. ❣️
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Thankyou so much for the concern ma’am ❤️ and Thankyou for stopping by! 😅
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Breathtaking…..Your story made me speechless….And i think everyone who read out this.🙏🙏
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Thankyou! This was indeed a terrible experience ❤️
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So happy you are ok. My goodness that picture is scary.
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Truly it still makes me tremble sometimes 🥺 Thankyou for the concern and also thankyou for visiting my profile! It means a lot 🥺❤️
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I agree. A near death experience helps us put things into perspective. I know that intensely personally from Mt Democrat in Colorado, USA years back. Your post and story resonates with me, the intensity, the blur the super-clarity. I am glad you are here today sharing your perspective on it. Thank you, Anjali.
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Thank you for stopping by sir! It means a lot ❤️
That event was very misfortunate but I think it was needed to put things into line ☺️ Thank you once again 😅
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You’re very welcome. That you came to perspective this fast is admirable. And again, glad you had intense life experience you can keep and take forward birthed now from you own inner wisdom.
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Thankyou so much again sir 🥺. I m overwhelmed and this has really made my day! ❤️
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You are most welcome! I’m glad serendipity crossed out paths. Best to that making your day a treasure to remember, in a great way. 🙂
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Definitely ❤️
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Hmm, “Being able to do what one loves = Happiness” Excellent though! Nonetheless, most of the times people – Not you:) BTW – wonder what they LOVE. They often casually call it passion which I’ve seen them changing every six months; No offence to readers please:) The situation becomes more complicated when one has to limit one’s love and put a cap on one’s doings because people/society won’t agree or approve! Even deeper, sometimes it becomes really tough to justify one’s actions on the grounds of social and ethical values; in that case forget loving and doing things! Anyways, who decides how much one is supposed to love and what is the limit of doing to achieve that absolute. So without being vague here, what I’m saying is “Happiness”, which I believe should come naturally to us, travels a long way of struggle to flourish in this world. This is a tragedy, although those who think have it must treasure it! Cheers!! “Note: Sorry for the diversion”
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I understand and feel every word you said. Sometimes we really can’t decide what we really really love since we have thousands of options to pick with. Today I am enjoying blogging, maybe tomorrow I wont. I guess it’s just a fact of time. As time changes , your choices changes too.
And as per the society and ethical values, almost everytime we are bounded by them and really can’t do what we want to. I think taking both what we love and society together is impossible! I don’t know, what I said. But I wrote what I understood from your comment! Sorry, if I am wrong 🥺
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Thats so scary , I don’t know what I would’ve done . The worst I had was being hit by while in my car while being parked . We had some car trouble and had to sit on the side of the road and wait for a tow truck . But a big white truck, with a distracted driver hit our car and broke out the windows . He was going over the speed limit . Luckily no one was hurt bad , but we did have to go to a chiropractor.
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That must feel so weird to have a truck hit a parked car. I m glad you all were not hurt. Surviving an accident really makes you feel something different about yourself! ❤️ Though I am not happy that it happened, but I m glad I can take it as a wakeup call! 🥺
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Its definitely really scary and your accident sounds pretty serious . Glad you’re okay and can share your thoughts ☺️
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Thankyou 🥺❤️
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Your story made me scared! Thank God, you are fine. And I think this occurrence made you bit stronger.
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Yes, though it was scary, it has really helped me grow a lot ❤️ I have taken it as a wakeup call in my life 😅
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Happy to hear that it helped you a lot❤And yes, everything happen for a reason.
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True ❤️
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Glad that you all survived this tragic incident. Some people don’t know by doing this they are risking life of so many people and their family too
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So true! That day if we had known that driver was under influence, we would’ve stopped it a lot earlier! Maybe it was a lesson to learn 🙃
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Wow must have been scary, it was chilling to read. The mental impact it must have had. Stay safe!!
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Thankyou so much ma’am! It was scary indeed ❤️
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I can imagine.
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Thnx God
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Thankyou for your concern! And Thankyou for stopping by sir! ❤️
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Thnx God
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Oh my! This chills me to the bones.
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It was really very scary! 🥺😭
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It must have been terrifying. I am really glad you kept something positive with this experience. Sometimes tragedies provide for simplicity in life.
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Yes, t was terrifying but was really helpful in teaching so much in life ! Thank you for reading it ❤️
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One of a very tough moment, you have survived, fortune worked out that day for you as well as your friends.
Stay safe, Stay healthy!!
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Thankyou so much ❤️✨
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Oh my
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Thank God u all r safe
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Thankyou for the concern! ❤️
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We are all glad you survived this so you can share your story..I am sorry about the trauma🥺💕
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Thankyou so much Jandi ❤️ It was a bad experience indeed but I am glad nothing super bad happened!
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me tooo🤗🤗
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I really like the way you write! ” We forget to live the life to the fullest. We don’t know what tomorrow holds, let alone tomorrow, we don’t know what the next second of your life holds for us”.-So true
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Aw! Thankyou so much ma’am. Thankyou for reading and appreciating my post. It means a lot.
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My pleasure
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Wow! Praise the Lord for your life.
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Thankyou ma’am ❤️
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You are welcome
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👌👌nice post
😱😱Horrifying experience
Thank god that now your doing fine
Your positive decision ✌💐👏👏👏
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Thankyou so much for reading and appreciating! ❤️
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OMG😰😰😰😰
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This scared me. Hope everyone was okay after that accident. I guess, this incident changed your life. Take care 🙂
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Yes it did a lot! Thankyou so much for reading it out! ❤️
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Pleasure🌈
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Glad you learned such a beautiful lesson from a scary experience. Also glad that I can see your posts in English.
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Thankyou so much ❤️ Before I never though that someone would ever read my posts, so I basically uploaded for myself only, now that everyone is so interested to read, I have even uploaded their translation too! ❤️
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Thank you for doing that. I can read Hindi but it takes me a long time to read it.
BTW, I had a similar experience to yours when I was 9. I went to boarding school in Dalhousie. We were in a school bus going down the mountain when the bus fell off the road. It was very scary.
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That might have been so frightening for a 9 year old! 🥺
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Yes. I am 60 now. I hadn’t thought of it recently until I read your post.
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Thankyou so much for sparing your time to read and comment ma’am! This means so much to me 🙏
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You are very welcome. I was happy to make the time to read your post. 🙂
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Thankyou ma’am ❤️
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Wow.
What an absolutely terrifying experience.
Thank God you survived.
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Thankyou so much for the concern and taking out time to read my article! 🙏
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Actually we lead our life under so much pressure which is not needed …..such incidents make us think the right way to live …..
We don’t need much to survive but we chase all the time and loose our inner happiness…….
Jo beet gayi so baat gayi Anjali …..Take Care 😊😊😊
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Thankyou so much ma’am! I too am looking forward to better days! We often forget little joys around us and chase for the big ones! In between all this, We forget to live our life somehow!
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Ya,so true ….
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a very life changing experience. You’ve described it so well
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Thankyou so much sir 🙏
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That was quite an experience .Glad all is well .Thanks for sharing this and the wonderful reminders of how precious life is !
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Thankyou so much for the concern, And thankyou so much for taking out your time and reading it. It means a lot ❤️
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I’m so happy your healthy and well. Thank you so sharing your experience that was so brave!❤xx
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Thankyou so much ❤️ It means a lot 🥺
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Your so welcome!!❤
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Wow. This story is a crazy story of I’ve ever heard one 💔. I’m so grateful that you are okay. Life is so precious 💖. Ecclesiastes 3:12,13 says, “I have concluded that there is nothing better for them than to rejoice and to do good during their life, also that everyone should eat and drink and find enjoyment for all his hard work. It is the gift of God.” ❤❤
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Thankyou for appreciating and Yes I totally believe in that saying too. ❤️ Thankyou for stopping by!
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Thank God, you survived.
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Yes, thank god 🙏
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Stay Blessed. We hear in the news of disaster air crash that kills all on board but one or two survive – miraculously. I believe in a saying: ” When the time is up – time is up”
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Yes! If you’re meant to die, you will die even while you’re inside your house sleeping on your bed! I think it’s all about time!
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Reblogged this on Ned Hamson's Second Line View of the News and commented:
Thanks to God they survived
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Thankyou so much sir 🙏
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